4/30/09

This Topic.

"Love, so many people use your name in vain
Love, those who have faith in you sometimes go astray
Love, through all the ups and downs the joys and hurts
Love, for better or worse, I still will choose you first"

I haven't been able to really have those "thinking times to myself" in a while. I've been caught up with school & extra $hit that it seems that I'm forgetting to count my blessings each night. Well, I haven't wrote about love and/or my love life. One reason being that I like to keep that stuff private nowadays. But here's a little bit of my opinion on "love".

Most contemplations on love are cliche. And I have a feeling.. mine will also be cliche. But, there is something within love that I think each individual receives and gains something special no one else will experience. Does that make sense? I think love is the ability to have the patience to develop a friendship with someone, develop trust with them, learn every single detail that attributes to their beauty, and the hardest of them all.. learn and slowly accept the flaws that he/she may have. I have a feeling God made us with flaws for a reason: to help us realize just how many blessings He's given us. I think love can be the most beautiful thing in the world, but please ladies and gents, don't take it for granted. This love is a fragile lil thang; put into a sturdy cardboard box, taped very well, stamped "Fragile: Handle with Care", and delivered to your heart. Be careful with it. Love isn't something to give up on. But at times when you're trying your best and that seemingly 'true' love won't fit to the pieces of your heart, then don't force it because forcing it will eventually cause YOUR heart to break. Love will come naturally to you. Seek it, but don't force it. Try it, but don't accept forever unless you're TRULY sure. Be patient with it because God knows whushup. Love is the ultimate gift God gave every human being from the start.

Just don't let it fade away.

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