Do any of you live by this ?
"It ain't healthy for me to judge you by flaws and that's why I know I could criticize, but I put that aside to focus on you and I."
I know that with many relationships, friendships and even sometimes with my boyfriend there will always be those tiny annoyances and bothersome qualities that irk me. But.. I don't know what it is about the close people in my life and how I just look past those thangs and love them with all my love.
I feel that sometimes once first impressions are done.. flaws are the things were are always seem to notice. If you judge someone before you meet them.. just how many physical flaws would you come up with ? And once you get to know someone.. how many inner flaws would you come up with ? The people we're close with seem to be flawless.. like they are the people you were made to be with all your life because they just have that instant "connection". Deep down inside, though, we know they have those flaws. What makes us look past them ? But what about those we hate ? Why can't we give that chance to those who have done something to anger, piss us off ? Is that quote "Deep down inside there's good in everyone?" true? Why is it that we can get in a fight with those closest to us and forget about it in days, hours, seconds ?
Why would flaws be unattractive when absolutely everyone has some ?
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